2015年1月31日星期六

25 Quotes Every Woman Should Remember

You are an independent and confident woman. You always listen to your heart and mind, you always know what to do, and you always try everything for self-development and self-improvement. But is it really as easy as it sounds?
We all need inspiration from time to time. Did it ever happen you read a quote that spoke your mind and influenced you much? The 25 below mentioned quotes are must-checks for ladies who seek for inspiration… and gentlemen who want to understand the nature of women better.
Try to remember them – and you will see how powerful some words can be.

1. Tina Fey:

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“Don’t waste your energy trying to educate or change opinions; go over, under, through, and opinions will change organically when you’re the boss. Or they won’t. Who cares? Do your thing, and don’t care if they like it.”

2. Coco Chanel:

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“Women must tell men always that they are the strong ones. They are the big, the strong, the wonderful. In truth, women are the strong ones. It is just my opinion, I am not a professor.”

3. Zooey Deschanel:

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“I don’t know why femininity should be associated with weakness. Women should be free to express who they are without thinking, ‘I need to act like a man, or I need to tone it down to be successful.’ That’s a very good way to keep women down.”

4. Sherri Shepherd:

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“The best piece of advice someone has ever given me was ‘do it scared.’ And no matter if you’re scared, just go ahead and do it anyway because you might as well do it scared, so it will get done and you will feel so much better if you step out of your comfort zone.”

5. Christian Dior:

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“After women, flowers are the most lovely thing God has given the world.”

6. Ellen DeGeneres:

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“True beauty is not related to what color your hair is or what color your eyes are. True beauty is about who you are as a human being, your principles, your moral compass.”

7. Anne Roiphe:

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“A woman whose smile is open and whose expression is glad has a kind of beauty no matter what she wears.”

8. Audrey Hepburn:

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“The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.”

9. Ginger Rogers:

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“You know, there’s nothing damnable about being a strong woman. The world needs strong women. There are a lot of strong women you do not see who are guiding, helping, mothering strong men. They want to remain unseen. It’s kind of nice to be able to play a strong woman who is seen.”

10. Nicki Minaj:

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“My advice to women in general: Even if you’re doing a nine-to-five job, treat yourself like a boss. Not arrogant, but be sure of what you want — and don’t allow people to run anything for you without your knowledge.”

11. Muhhamad Ali Jinah:

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“There are two powers in the world; one is the sword and the other is the pen. There is a great competition and rivalry between the two. There is a third power stronger than both, that of the women.”

12. Margaret Sanger:

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“Woman must have her freedom, the fundamental freedom of choosing whether or not she will be a mother and how many children she will have. Regardless of what man’s attitude may be, that problem is hers — and before it can be his, it is hers alone.”

13. Marilyn Monroe:

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“A wise woman likes but doesn’t love, listens but doesn’t believe and leaves before she is left.”

14. Dick Van Dyke:

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“Women will never be as successful as men because they have no wives to advise them.”

15. Amelia Earhart:

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“I want to do it because I want to do it. Women must try to do things as men have tried. When they fail, their failure must be but a challenge to others.”

16. George Bernard Shaw:

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“If women were particular about men’s characters, they would never get married at all.”

17. Calvin Klein:

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“I think there’s something incredibly sexy about a woman wearing her boyfriend’s T-shirt and underwear.”

18. Whitney Houston:

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“I like being a woman, even in a man’s world. After all, men can’t wear dresses, but we can wear the pants.”

19. Cameron Diaz:

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“What we women need to do, instead of worrying about what we don’t have, is just love what we do have.”

20. John Mason Brown:

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“America is a land where men govern, but women rule.”

21. Farrah Fawcett:

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“God gave women intuition and femininity. Used properly, the combination easily jumbles the brain of any man I’ve ever met.”

22. Yul Brynner:

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“Girls have an unfair advantage over men: if they can’t get what they want by being smart, they can get it by being dumb.”

23. Joseph Conrad:

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“Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.”

24. Cherie Lunghi:

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“Be yourself — it’s the inner beauty that counts. You are your own best friend, the key to your own happiness, and as soon as you understand that — and it takes a few heartbreaks — you can be happy.”

25. Oscar Wilde:

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“Women are made to be loved, not understood.”

2 Specific moments to redirect your brain

Basically you repeat same patterns of thought everyday. That’s why you live the same life everyday.
If you want to change your life and give it a new direction then you have to redirect your focus in different direction. The way to shift your focus is to change your thoughts and mental images.
If you try directly to change your thoughts then your mind will resist you so there are two specific moments when you can redirect your focus effortlessly.
The best time to bypass these those limiting thought patterns and redirect your focus toward desired direction is when your mind is naturally calm and quite.
Everyday your mind becomes naturally calm and quite before wake up in the morning and before you enter into sleep.
You can use these specific moments to redirect your mind toward powerful states or your goals. Because at that time your mind is less resistant and more receptive.
Some people use positive affirmations to alter their state. In my opinion it will be better if you simply ponder your mind on the things you want and desire in your life or on the goals you want to achieve.
Do not ask ‘how’ you are going to achieve these goals. Simply think about ‘what exactly you want‘. For example think about how will you feel when you confidently give a public talk. Amplify that feeling of confidence. How will you feel in your dream car? What you will see and hear?
Suppose you want to write a book but you are feeling writers block then think about how will you feel if words could flow freely on the paper. Anticipate how will you feel if you could write effortlessly pages after pages.
Anticipation works better than affirmations because when you anticipate you are exploring the possibilities. You feel excitement and that excitement motivates you, that excitement inspires you. Then you are not imposing false beliefs on your mind that’s why  your mind will not resist you.
In the morning when you wake up don’t open the eyes immediately. First of all direct your mind in the direction of happiness and excitement. Just think about how wonderful is thismoment. Feel prosperity and abundance that surrounds you. Think about anything, any person or any topic that makes you feel good. In this way you will give your brain a right direction.
If you begin your day with gratitude then you will transform your day and you will feel good. If you begin your day with irritation then also you will transform your day and you will feel irritation. So the choice is yours.
In the morning set intention of feeling happiness, confidence and gratitude. This way you give your brain a direction. Without direction it will wander anywhere.
When you set new year resolutions you give a direction to your brain. Your brain will obey your orders. When you set a goal, declare an intention, ponder on a subject, anticipate a solution, remember good memories then you are giving your mind a right direction. You are telling your brain that this is what I want.
If you focus your mind on problems before you sleep then your sleep will disturb. And your brain will also get programmed to go in the wrong direction.
This is very simple thing, deliberately choose better feeling thoughts and mental images at least when you wake up in the morning or before you go to sleep. Because these are the two specific moments when your brain shift gear and pass through a gap. When your brain is passing through the gap it is very receptive to new ideas.
If you do these two simple things then you will see your life shifting in the desired direction before your eyes.
If you do not want to focus your attention on a specific goal then simply focus your attention on the present moment. Feel the coziness and comfort of your bed, observe your breath, pay attention to your body and notice which part is feeling more relaxed than the other part. The point is one should never get focused on worries and concerns immediately after waking up or before going to sleep.
Use these two moments to give your mind a proper direction or simply remain silent and enjoy the moment.

Topics to entertain before you go to sleep:

  • How will I feel when I will reach there?
  • What does it feels to achieve that goal?
  • What exactly I want in my life?
  • What if I could write a 100 pages book?
  • What will I see, hear and feel when I will behave confidently in this particular situation?
  • How does it feels to be prosperous?

Topics to entertain before you open your eyes in the morning:


  • How wonderful I feel this moment!
  • Today I intend to live every moment wisely
  • I want to feel prosperous just for today
  • Today I want to feel happy for no reason
  • Today I want to feel love and compassion
Find your own topics which make you feel good and create excitement.
In this way you can redirect or shift your brain from worries and tensions to happiness and achievements.