2012年10月28日星期日

古巨基 - 告別我的戀人們


作曲:陳輝陽
填詞:林夕
編曲:陳輝陽
監製:陳輝陽

告別我的戀人們 誰沒有得到更多
錯誤錯得可玩味 未留下也算好結果
擦亮你的也擦傷我 難捱亦值得被慶賀
忍痛著切磋 只貪圖下個 更好過

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總會復原吧 痛快得快樂嗎
曾經風吹雨打 才對得住炎夏
要是從未傷心到害怕 沒有承受過多少牽掛
又怎證實感情開過花 又怎容納下個她
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早已復原吧 會愛得更易嗎
還枯萎幾扎花 才愛出一個家
學習成熟也因天真過 樂與苦同樣無價
我們也應感激這些 愛的代價

偶遇我的戀人們 誰情願被不斷替換
堅拒被割損 怎可磨合到 那一半

Repeat #

回望初戀為何未殺出血路 才能體會到
愛只懂容納愛 說永恆還太早

早已復原吧 會愛得更易嗎
留低多少個疤 才愛出一個家
學習成熟也因天真過 樂與苦同樣無價
往日年少怎欣賞那首 愛的代價

告別我的戀人們 其實你聽得到嗎

10 Things They Don’t Teach You in Architecture School

10 Things They Don’t Teach You in Architecture School

Milstein Hall at Cornell University / OMA © Matthew Carbone
By Linda Bennet, for Archi-Ninja
Initially, Architecture School was overwhelming. In my early assignments I struggled to learn the new design ‘language,’ to manage the intense studio hours (goodbye to mum and dad for a while), and deal with the tough criticism – with barely a passing mark, I was lucky to make it through my 1st year! Then there were the ‘super-students,’ those who appeared to achieve the unattainable: draw in plan, section AND perspective, as well as eloquently communicate and sell their ideas.
Six years on from this tough beginning I graduated with high distinction, achieving the highest overall aggregated marks of all students in the areas of History, Theory, Construction, Practice and Design.  I was the University of Technology (UTS) winner of the most Outstanding Design Student in 2010, awarded a scholarship to study in L.A. and was also nominated by UTS for the NSW Architects Medallion in 2011.
Today I reflect on my time at university (or college for my US readers) to recognize that the most important lessons didn’t come from the curriculum, but from what I discovered along the way. In no particular order, here is what I uncovered about surviving and achieving in architecture school:


10 things you don’t get taught in Architecture School:

1: Forget about Winning or Losing
Architecture is undoubtedly subjective and therefore your tutors will tend to find value (or lack of) in things that you don’t (or others don’t) and vice versa. When you stop focusing on what other people do (or think) then you will become more capable of focusing on your individual design value and agenda. Ultimately, by ruling out the process of comparison you begin to define your own standards and measures of success which, in my case, is greater than the perceived expectations that someone else will place upon me. You therefore create your own benchmark for success. Document your work well and find a good forum such as pushpullbar.com for presenting your ideas and being open for criticism and growth. Always be satisfied with your achievement, irrespective of your mark and of those around you, part of what makes architecture so exciting is the fact that everyone contributes uniquely to its perception, discourse and practice.

2: Your tutor is your client
Similar to a client, your tutor needs to see, understand and be convinced by your design process and resolution. You need to be able to convince your tutor that your design is well-considered; at minimum, addressing the requirements of the brief (see 4: Break the rules). In a design competition the firm that best communicates their idea through various mediums will often win the job, and in the same way, the student who best communicates their idea in architecture school will likely get the highest mark. It is also important to be professional, your tutors are likely to have many responsibilities outside being a teacher and mentor so show them that you respect their time by considering their advice seriously and by working hard. If you need extra help, ask for advice, visit their office or catch up in a cafe, just be present and invested.
Taking the time to know your tutor (like you would a client) will give you a greater understanding of their knowledge, values and motivations. By understanding what their methodology and interest in architecture is you can best gauge how they can help you, what you can learn from them and how to approach and pitch your design strategies.

3: Play the Momentum
Many great leaders in business (including Donald Trump) talk about the importance of establishing and maintaining momentum. With momentum it is difficult to stop, while without momentum, it is difficult to start. Tutors hope to see progress every single week and if you start developing your design from day one without stopping, it is unlikely you will feel the need to pull an all-nighter before submission time (this being the quintessential anti-momentum). The most successful projects are unlikely to be developed in just 1 night and design tutors are well aware of the students who haven’t slept based on the thoroughness of their project. Without momentum, students are not able to achieve the same kind of thought processes with consideration and continuous design iterations that the students with momentum have. Maintaining this will also eliminate the need for major last-minute design changes that often do more harm than good. Last-minute changes are usually less resolved and less likely to be communicated successfully.

4: Break the Rules
It is important to think of the design brief as your minimum expectation; tutors establish the brief to ensure students address particular challenges and important considerations relating to the design subject. There will be a number of rules which are outlined in the brief; ‘the house must be 2 stories high’ or ‘you must have 6m setback from the road.’ However, if you have a better solution, break and/or negotiate the rules – but always understand why. Curiosity will lead to discovery, which in turn will lead to questioning: so why does the house need to be 2 stories? There is never only one answer rather university is about speculating many and asking the right questions.
There is far more value in a student who strives to find solutions that challenge the status quo than in one who simply meets the rules without considering why they’ve been established (and what they do) in the first place. By doing this you think about how architecture works as opposed to how it looks. When it comes to the design brief, rules are made to be broken; and when done so successfully you will stand out from your peers, as well as generate a more valuable discussion for learning.
Many architects who have won major competitions (look no further; Bernard Tschumi) have done so by breaking and/or negotiating the rules, to communicate a design solution, or perhaps a problem (even better!) to the jury or client (in your case tutor) which stood out from the competition. By bringing unexpected agendas and obstacles into view, architectural proposals can re-order the traditional logic (see Arakawa and Gins) and allow the jury or client (or tutor, or the public) to find unexpected value.

5: Have broad influences and mentors
When studying Architecture it is quite easy to isolate all of your influences and mentors to people who directly work in the industry. While it is important to have these people available to guide you, it is important to have many influences and mentors from outside the industry. This allowed me learn from people with vastly different perspectives and considerations and to then apply this thinking back into architecture, creating a broader and more interesting forum for discussion and negotiation.
I often did self-guided subjects where I could write my own design brief to explore such topics of anarchy and architecture and social and political agendas in architecture because this is what most interested me. It is also possible to do subjects outside architecture by taking units in anthropology, biology or ceramics, for example, allowing you to naturally broaden your skill-set, personal resources, and way of thinking about architecture (think of Shigeru Ban’s unique weaving aesthetic), and even better is Architecture inspired by Science Fiction or Fantasy.
One of my favourite architects Andrew Maynard often talks about the “storm trooper detail” in his work, which is a white surface with black detailing revealed beneath. Limiting your influences can quite simply lead to producing designs that look generic because one can only imagine the reproduction of what they know or have seen. Having broad motivations and influences will allow you to constantly inform your peers and tutors and to keep them engaged in your projects and processes by showing them a perspective which is unique and outside their own.

6: Have cause and conviction
Be passionate about something to motivate you through university and into your career. Game changing Architects advocate a strong cause and with precise conviction. In their protest for what they believe they don’t stand in-front of the car, they are behind the wheel driving. Admittedly, at one point or another, every architecture student finds him or herself dragging their heels. As soon as you feel that you do not love what you’re doing, it’s time to stop, question why and re-evaluate. Redirect your process or motivation and don’t let anything get in the way of your love affair (see Louis Sullivan’s essay,“May Not Architecture Again Become a Living Art?”). Don’t feel like you are doing the work because you have to, rather you should do it because you want to and allow your energetic attitude to inspire and lift your peers. Why bother trying to drudge through any part of the process?

7: Up-skill
Your tools, techniques and methods of communication will significantly affect your ability to communicate architecture. You need to develop strong visual, verbal and written communication skills. Through concise yet relaxed storytelling – communicating, his idea, process and resolution Bjarke Ingels is a master when it comes to winning competitions, in an interview with the New Yorker he describes himself “as a true extrovert. Your capacity to communicate ideas is your hammer and chisel.” Something as simple as mastering Google search, CAD programs, or getting models laser cut can save hours!

8: Build meaningful relationships
The relationships you build, both in and out of school, represent the beginning of defining your views and finding your own path in architecture. Many successful architecture partnerships are formed between people who met in school. (see Asymptote Architecture or Hurzog & de Meuron) But beyond keeping a reliable group of go-tos, think of everyone you encounter during school as a potential connection for the future. Seek out events and happenings that will expose you to other people in the field. Having conversations with as many people in the industry as possible will open up the most opportunities for you to grow and form new professional friendships and partnerships, taking you places not possible without.

9: Learn project management
As an architecture student, one of the first things you find out (and last things you learn to figure in) is that everything will likely take three to five times longer than you expected. This is also unfortunately common in practice and generally Architects need to be better managers. I believe this is because architecture is both a qualitative and quantitative process which helps to negate the ‘finish’ line. Not ever did I feel a design project was ‘perfect’ and likewise Architects on every project wish they had done something (or many things) differently. “Parkinson’s Law dictates that a task will swell in (perceived) importance and complexity in relation to the time allotted for its completion.”- Tim FerrissThe Four Hour Work week.
Understanding the perceived importance of a given task will effectively allow you to direct your focus on the right things, at the right time, allowing you to make smart decisions on where to spend your effort, time, money, resources and so on for maximum gain. For more guidance on study hacks and optimising the use of your time check out Cal Newport’s blog and 99U.

10: Don’t expect the outcome
Students often limit their projects by anticipating certain aspects or the design outcome far too early on in the process. If you are too focused on a fixed result, then you are denying yourself the opportunity to discover what you could not have expected. When you anticipate a given outcome, your research, equipment, processes and focus will naturally be managed in a way to best meet the anticipated solution. By contrast, if you try to set yourself up for the act of discovery, embracing what serendipitous events come up along the way, you will begin to tap into the tacit and often highly subjective insights, intuitions and hunches of individual thought and expression. I can tell you now that to be surprised by your own, idiosyncratic work is far more satisfying than any mark.
You will need to find your own way, be engaged and proactive, no one can teach you the answer, you need to discover and create. ‘A lot of people never use their initiative because no one told them to’ Banksy. Like I said back at number 1, there are no winners or losers – architecture is interesting because it is after all capable of surprise!

I hope everyone studying architecture, or planning to study architecture finds my advice helpful. For anyone who would like to learn more about any of my points above please feel free to email linda@archi-ninja.com. For anyone who has finished architecture school or currently learning things along the way Id love to hear your own experiences and advice in the comment section below.

Story via Archi-Ninja

Cite: Quirk , Vanessa . "10 Things They Don’t Teach You in Architecture School" 09 Oct 2012. ArchDaily. Accessed 28 Oct 2012. <http://www.archdaily.com/280028>

Want to Keep Your Job? Stop Trying to Fit In

I was running along the six-mile loop in Central Park on a cold winter day when I passed the southern most end of the park where I noticed a large number of miserable looking pedicab drivers huddled together to keep warm. Periodically one reached out to a passing pedestrian, but no one seemed to want a ride in a bicycle-drawn carriage. It was too cold.

And then, to my surprise, a little further along the run I saw a pedicab — with passengers in it — circling the park. The reason this pedicab had been hired instead of the others was immediately obvious. On both sides of his small carriage hung signs with large letters that read "HEATED SEATS."

In any highly competitive field — and these days every field is highly competitive — being different is the only way to win. Nobody wants to sell a commodity and nobody wants to be a commodity.

Yet, even though we all know that, most of us spend a tremendous amount of effort trying not to be different. We model ourselves and our businesses after other successful people and businesses, spending considerable money and energy discovering and replicating best practices, looking for that one recipe for success.

Here's the thing: if you look like other people, if your business looks like other businesses, then all you've done is increase your pool of competition.

I was working with American Express in 1993 when Harvey Golub became the new CEO. He wore suspenders. Within a few weeks so did everyone else. In our corporate cultures, we school, like fish. We try especially hard to fit in when we worry about getting laid off. Maybe, we think, standing out will remind them that we're here and then they'll lay us off too.
But fitting in has the opposite effect. It makes you dispensable. If you're like everyone else, then how critical to the business can you be?

That's how my friend Paul Faerstein lost his job. He was very successful at fitting in. It was the early 1990s and he was a partner at the Hay Group. He was a good consultant — I learned a lot from him — and for a long time he acted like the other partners. He sold the projects they sold. Billed the hours they billed.

Then, in a year and a half, Paul's mother died, his brother died, and he got divorced. He couldn't keep up his sales or his billable hours. And here's the important part: he didn't bring anything unique to the table beyond those things. It wasn't that he couldn't, as we'll see in a moment. But he didn't. So he lost his job.

Trying to distinguish ourselves by being the same as others, only better, is hard to do and even harder to sustain. There are too many smart, hard working people out there all trying to excel by being the best at what everyone else is doing.

It's simply easier to be unique.

Entertainment is a great example. In a field with a tremendous number of beautiful, sexy, talented people, what are the chances that you'll be noticed by being even more beautiful, sexy, and talented? But, Susan Boyle was different. She broke the mold. Which is why her YouTube videos received over 100 million hits. If she looked like every other aspiring singer, would the world have noticed?

If you're 60, don't get a facelift and pretend to be 30. Embrace 60 and use it to your advantage. According to a tremendous body of research, talent is not inborn, it's created by practice. Which gives a 60 year old a tremendous advantage over a 30 year old.
But even in our diversity-focused corporations, it's hard to be different because we have cultural norms that encourage sameness. That's why we have dress codes. And expressions like "don't rock the boat." My advice? Rock on.

That's what Paul eventually did. After he lost his job, Paul realized that he was never fully himself as a partner in the Hay Group. He had more to offer. He wanted to connect more deeply with his clients, help them achieve things outside the scope of the Hay Group's offerings, and engage with them on issues beyond the bottom line.


Now, his name is Paramacharya Swami Parameshwarananda (you can call him Swamiji for short). He is the resident spiritual master at an ashram in Colorado. His change might seem drastic. But it was easy for him because each step he took was a step toward himself. And now he couldn't be happier or more effective. He serves on various boards and leadership councils and is a driving force behind several educational and humanitarian projects around the world.
He's still doing many of the same things he did as a failed consultant in New Jersey, but he's more successful because he feels and acts like himself. In his words, "I'm living my inner truth." And he is indispensable. Not simply for what he does, but for who he is.

Now, I'm not suggesting you go live on an ashram in Colorado. For most people that would be absurd. And copying someone else who's different won't help. You'll never be as good a version of someone else as you are of yourself.

How can you move closer to contributing your unique value? What are your "heated seats"? Can you be more effective by being more yourself?

Face it: you're different. And the sooner you realize it, the sooner you embrace and leverage it, the more successful you'll be. The same goes for your business.

That's why one pedicab driver with heated seats can stay busy all day while the others huddle around each other, fareless, trying to stay warm.

http://blogs.hbr.org/bregman/2009/05/want-to-keep-your-job-stop-try.html

2012年10月14日星期日

Some movies-2012 Oct


一個宇宙之內,竟有兩個截然不同、卻又相連的空間,各有自己的引力;一個稱為“上界”,另一個則是“下界”。居 住於“上界”的人,因為境內資源豐富,所以人 人生活富裕;而“下界”居民,因資源困乏,相對亦較貧窮。“上界”與“下界”不但貧富懸殊,更不可隨便進入對方的空間,否則會因引力問題即時自燃。然而, 兩個空間的人並非無法互相交往。一直以來只有兩界的頂尖份子可在連接兩個世界的超科技「天梯」裡進行科研工作。其餘居民在沒有許可之下進入另一世界,被視 為犯法。他們只可在兩界相連的高山頂上,偷偷結識異界的人。

生活在“下界”的Adam(占史杜哲斯 飾)與生活於“上界”的Eve(姬絲汀登絲 飾)在年少時已在高山的山頂上結識並互有好感。可惜一次意外,令Eve失憶,從此忘記Adam;而Adam雖對她念念不忘,亦無法在山上再碰到她。直至多 年後的某一天,Adam無意間從電視中見到Eve,霎時喚醒了這份埋藏心底的感情!對Eve仍然痴心一片的Adam,決心憑藉他的科學天份,闖入天梯,取 得高科技儀器,衝破空間引力界限,誓要與Eve再談一場逆轉天地的戀愛!


導演 Juan Diego Solanas
演員 占史杜哲斯, 姬絲汀登絲
類別 愛情 片長 108 分鐘
級別 IIA 語言 英語 (中文字幕)



巴姐搞轉娛樂圈 (Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day)
上映日期:2008年3月27日

電影簡介:
故事發生於1939 年的倫敦,人稱「巴姐」的家庭女教師比德格(法蘭絲麥杜曼 飾)向來生活枯燥,最新動向是被無良僱主豉椒炒魷。巴姐自此嚴重缺乏生活費,被迫「攔途截擊」一份她從來不會考慮的差事──為娛樂圈當紮姐仔黛思雅(艾美 雅當絲 飾)當上「社交秘書」。 掛名「社交秘書」其實好睇唔好食,巴姐除了成為黛思雅的貼身二打六外,最麻煩是協助對方處理愛情與事業上種種難題。偏偏美艷的黛思雅勁旺桃花,經常為周旋 身旁的三位狂風浪蝶忙過不停──包括滿懷熱誠鋼琴家邁克爾(里爾比斯 飾)、橫行霸道夜總會老闆力克(馬克史德安 飾)、事事敏感的樂團經理人菲爾(湯拜恩 飾),巴姐職責上需要為她四周擋駕,惹落不少牙齒印。

與此同時,巴姐發現自己竟瘋狂戀上了風度翩翩的設計師喬爾(薛雲漢迪斯 飾),然而喬爾未婚妻伊黛(莎莉安德遜 飾)有感巴姐影響其「正印」地位,欲佈局置她於死地,幸得黛思雅出手拔助,令她倆的友誼邁進一大步。二人面對解不開的情網,如何收科?

主演:艾美雅當絲 Amy Adams、法蘭絲麥杜曼 Frances McDormand、里爾比斯 Lee Pace、薛雲漢迪斯 Ciaran Hinds、莎莉安德遜 Shirley Henderson、馬克史德安 Mark Strong、湯拜恩 Tom Payne
導演:巴克勒拿路尼 Bharat Nalluri
級別:IIA 級
片長:92 分鐘
片種:喜劇

http://big5.eastday.com:82/gate/big5/enjoy.eastday.com/e/20120607/images/02066456.jpg


導演 :烏爾善
演員 :周迅, 趙薇, 陳坤, 楊冪, 馮紹峰, 陳廷嘉, 費翔
片長 :2小時11分
級別 :IIB 級
上映 :5.7.2012

故事簡介

靖公主 (趙薇 飾)天生麗質,卻於一次打獵時被熊所傷,從此毀容,要以金面具遮掩疤痕。原本與她兩情相悅的近衛霍心(陳坤 飾),因保護不力,被流放西域。靖到西域尋找霍心,途中遇上小妖雀兒(楊冪 飾)及千年狐妖小唯(周迅 飾)。小唯正要尋找一個自願跟她換心的人,好讓她可以變為有血有肉的凡人;因此她一直追隨在靖身邊等待機會。靖找到霍心,但他卻迷戀小唯的美色,對靖冷 淡。靖為求恢復美貌奪回真愛,甘願與小唯換心。然而,靖不知道的是,要保持這副美貌,她必須每天吃一顆活人的心…

 

名稱: 閃亮人生 (Intouchables)
導演: 艾力多倫達諾, 奧利華拿卡哲
主演: 法司華古薩, 奧馬司
片長: 1小時52分
上映: 2012年9月6日,星期4 (公映)

出身法國貴族世家的菲臘(法司華古薩 飾),因一次跳傘意外而幾乎全身癱瘓,只剩下情緒意識和思考能力,終身只能坐在輪椅上,全身無法動彈,唯有聘請一名能24小時照顧日常起居生活的看護。菲臘竟雇用了剛剛出獄、住在巴黎近郊「廉租屋」的黑人男子迪維斯(奧馬司飾)來照顧他,二人一白一黑,一個說話文謅謅一個粗俗無聊,一個西裝筆挺一個愛穿底褲拖鞋,兩個生活在不同世界的人長時間相處下來,竟爆發出友誼火花,讓人生逆轉過來!



整容天后


整容天后 :  又肥又醜的女主角莉莉子(Lilico),原本是在專供有「肥妹廦」人士尋歡的夜店內工作;直至一日,她進行了風險極高的全身整容手術,人生才重新出現 曙光!脫胎換骨後的莉莉子,憑著「人造」天使臉孔以及魔鬼身材,火速成為各大頂尖時裝雜誌,以及國際名牌的御用model,實現了一直以來的夢想。正當莉 莉子享受着五光十色的美好之時,由於整容過度,莉莉子的身體開始出現嚴重後遺症;加上與後輩model的各種勾心鬥角,超模天后的神話逐漸破滅於人前!

日本片《整容天后》大收2.1億港元票房,帶挈女主角澤尻英龍華成功收復失地,除入圍「最佳整容人辦女星」外,更有雜誌教扮她在戲中造型,可見帶起的熱潮未減!


導演:蜷川實花
主演:澤尻英龍華、寺島忍、綾野剛、水原希子、窪塚洋介、鈴木杏、桃井薰

(A) Quote(s) a day



Close some doors today. not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they lead you nowhere ― Paulo Coelho

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