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| 「底線」是很奇妙的界線，它是龍門，是守在最後的一道防線，這樣一條幼細而不可見的線，幾乎可以說是決定了很多事情生死的關鍵。 你的性格、價值觀與信念，為你人生不同範疇定下相關的底線，它在保護你的心免受傷害。說真的，要是你不是需要保護自己，又何必設下底線呢？一定是因為線下的東西不能被觸碰和動搖，才會如此謹慎地保護。所謂底線，就是你心靈所能接受的最壞情況。例如，你最壞可以接受另一半在盛怒的情況下對你惡言相向，或者你可以接受對方有第三者，一但超出這個界線，什麼都不用再解釋，連商量的餘地也不會有。我們不可能沒有底線地做人，起碼身邊疼惜你的人也會這樣告訴你，不然一天你被欺負到體無完膚甚至死掉也沒人能拯救你。 然而，我卻在思考，究竟這一條界線是否真的如此強大？做人健康和快樂，是否真的只靠這條界線？ 要是你的另一半對你所做的事完全超過你所能承受的最壞，但你卻發現你依然愛這個人，你發現當刻失去他比怪責他更讓你痛苦，那麼你應該怎麼辦？是要守着自己的原則？還是因為愛眼前這個人所以將原則都放下？這是沒有確實答案的問題。每次當你被觸碰到一條底線的時候，你方才發現原來你所能承受的遠超過你對自己所了解的。原來當你還未愛完一個人，你的底線會為對方調校，它甚至會變得不再重要；要是你已經愛完這個人了，他就算對你有多好，他處處避開觸碰你的底線，你也覺得你們不應該再走在一起。 在愛面前，底線都變得不重要。愛，怎樣也可以繼續；不愛，一切都完了。所謂緣起緣盡，大概就是這個意思。 | ||||||
2017年5月10日星期三
林二汶 愛或不愛
2017年1月2日星期一
2017 First Sunday Stealing
1. What did you do in 2016 that you’d never done before?
Squeeze all the tears I have in my lifetime
2. Best thing that happened to you was...
He is still here with me
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Not yet
4. Did anyone close to you die?
so far, so close, still so far
5. What countries did you visit?
UK, China, Thailand
6. What would you like to have in 2017 that you lacked in 2016?
More ignorance and indifference, I wish I could care less
7. What dates from 2016 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
Quite some, the moments of fondness, attachment, departure, farewell, struggle ...
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Probably trying to grow up, yet very painful and tough moments
9. What was your biggest failure?
I wish I could handle the chaos better
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Yes
11. What was the best thing you bought?
A Looooooooooooot
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
My sis? welcome to the adulthood
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Mine
14. Where did most of your money go?
Boost the GPD of the whole economy, well , thanks to the free shipping and endless sales...
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Really nothing
16. What song will always remind you of 2016?
quite some, and I am now listening to so close
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: (a) happier or sadder? (b) thinner or fatter? (c) richer or poorer?
later ones..
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Some more reading
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Eating hahaha
20. How will you spend New Year's Eve?
Like a pig :P
21. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
so far, we are, so close
22. What was your favorite new TV program?
House!
23. What was the rudest thing someone did to you in 2016?
Manipulation
24. What was the best book you read?
The Little Prince
25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
The best is yet to come
26. What did you want and get?
:)
27. What did you want and not get?
Tranquility in mind
28. What was your favorite film of this year?
I still love old movies: Serendipity
29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
Not worth mentioning, i hate birthdays.
30. What one thing made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Trying to step out of the comfort zone
31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2016?
Dress how your feel
32. What kept you sane?
Sleep
33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Jessica Stam, Delta Goodrem
34. What political issue stirred you the most?
Those elections
35. Who did you miss?
Still
36. Who was the best new person you met?
A better me
Squeeze all the tears I have in my lifetime
2. Best thing that happened to you was...
He is still here with me
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Not yet
4. Did anyone close to you die?
so far, so close, still so far
5. What countries did you visit?
UK, China, Thailand
6. What would you like to have in 2017 that you lacked in 2016?
More ignorance and indifference, I wish I could care less
7. What dates from 2016 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
Quite some, the moments of fondness, attachment, departure, farewell, struggle ...
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Probably trying to grow up, yet very painful and tough moments
9. What was your biggest failure?
I wish I could handle the chaos better
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Yes
11. What was the best thing you bought?
A Looooooooooooot
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
My sis? welcome to the adulthood
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Mine
14. Where did most of your money go?
Boost the GPD of the whole economy, well , thanks to the free shipping and endless sales...
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Really nothing
16. What song will always remind you of 2016?
quite some, and I am now listening to so close
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: (a) happier or sadder? (b) thinner or fatter? (c) richer or poorer?
later ones..
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Some more reading
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Eating hahaha
20. How will you spend New Year's Eve?
Like a pig :P
21. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
so far, we are, so close
22. What was your favorite new TV program?
House!
23. What was the rudest thing someone did to you in 2016?
Manipulation
24. What was the best book you read?
The Little Prince
25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
The best is yet to come
26. What did you want and get?
:)
27. What did you want and not get?
Tranquility in mind
28. What was your favorite film of this year?
I still love old movies: Serendipity
29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
Not worth mentioning, i hate birthdays.
30. What one thing made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Trying to step out of the comfort zone
31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2016?
Dress how your feel
32. What kept you sane?
Sleep
33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Jessica Stam, Delta Goodrem
34. What political issue stirred you the most?
Those elections
35. Who did you miss?
Still
36. Who was the best new person you met?
A better me
2016年2月8日星期一
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