2012年12月8日星期六

LIFE'S LITTLE INSTRUCTION BOOK 501-900



My pick
 
517. Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something, and has lost something.
519. Learn the rules. Then break some.
530. Remember that 80% of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
531. Never swap your integrity for money, power, or fame.
541. Never be ashamed of laughter that's too loud or singing that's too joyful.
543. Don't trust your memory; write it down.
573. Don't overlook life's small joys while searching for the big ones.
600. There are people who will always come up with reasons why you can't do what you want to do. Ignore them.
633. Do the right thing, regardless of what others think.
639. Life will sometimes hand you a magical moment. Savor it.
649. Don't confuse comfort with happiness.
658. Marry a woman you love to talk to. As you get older, her conversational skills will be as important as any other.
664. If you want to do something and you feel in your bones that it's the right thing to do, do it. Intuition is often as important as the facts.
667. Everyone loves praise. Look hard for ways to give it to them.
668. Spend some time alone.
682. Allow your children to face the consequences of their actions.
685. You may be fortunate and make a lot of money. But be sure your work involves something that enriches your spirit as well as your bank account.
688. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
691. Don't dismiss a good idea simply because you don't like the source.
694. What you must do, do cheerfully.
695. Don't waste time waiting for inspiration. Begin, and inspiration will find you.
697. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
709. Deadlines are important. Meet them.
710. When you find someone doing small things well, put him or her in charge of bigger things.
711. Read more books.
713. Remember that a good price is not necessarily what an object is marked, but what it is worth to you.
715. Remember that the more you know, the less you fear.
721. When you find something you really want, don't let a few dollars keep you from getting it.
742. Keep your private thoughts private.
760. Champion your wife. Be her best friend and biggest fan.
767. Never say anything uncomplimentary about your wife or children in the presence of others.
775. Apologize immediately when you lose your temper, especially to children.
782. A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil, harmonious home.
783. When you tell a child to do something, don't follow it with, "Okay?" Ask instead, "Do you understand?"
784. Remember that almost everything looks better after a good night's sleep.
797. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
803. Don't take good friends, good health, or a good marriage for granted.
808. Do a good job because you want to, not because you have to. This puts you in charge instead of your boss.
824. Spend your time and energy creating, not criticizing.
829. Let your children see you do things for your wife that lets them know how much you love and treasure her.
830. Take photographs of every car you own. Later, these photos will trigger wonderful memories.
837. Think twice before deciding not to charge for your work. People often don't value what they don't pay for.
850. At meetings, resist turning around to see who has just arrived late.
888. Remember that ignorance is expensive.
892. Never tell a person who's experiencing deep sorrow, "I know how you feel." You don't.
893. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of good luck.

LIFE'S LITTLE INSTRUCTION BOOK 301-500

My pick
 
 
318. Hear both sides before judging.
320. Be courteous to everyone.
327. When you arrive at your job in the morning, let the first thing you say brighten
everyone's day.
338. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, "No regrets."
347. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
350. Remember the three most important things when buying a home: location, location, location.
355. Evaluate yourself by your own standards, not someone else's.
356. Be there when people need you.
358. Be decisive even if it means you'll sometimes be wrong.
359. Don't let anyone talk you out of pursuing what you know to be a great idea.
375. Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
376. Save an evening a week for just you and your wife.
380. Pay attention to the details.
429. Be prepared. You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.
452. Never compromise your integrity.
456. Send your loved one flowers. Think of a reason later.
460. Look for opportunities to make people feel important.
475. Marry only for love.
476. Count your blessings.
479. Never laugh at anyone's dreams.
484. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt, but it's the only way to live life completely.

2012年12月6日星期四

G.E.M. - 泡沫



"被欺騙的人,到底是幸福還是可憐?
選擇說謊,是因為他傷害了你卻不想你承受傷害。
這好像是在乎你,想要補救或保護的表現。
可是如果真的在乎你想要保護你,他又怎麼會說謊呢?


我應該慶幸你還會騙我,

還是憂傷原來連你也會騙我?"

- G.E.M.

Music by G.E.M.
Lyrics by G.E.M.
Produced and Arranged by Lupo Groinig
Directed by Tan Chang

Lyrics:

陽光下的泡沫 是彩色的
就像被騙的我 是幸福的
追究什麼對錯 你的謊言 基於你還愛我

美麗的泡沫 雖然一剎花火
你所有承諾 雖然都太脆弱
但愛像泡沫 如果能夠看破 有什麼難過

早該知道泡沫 一觸就破
就像已傷的心 不勝折磨
也不是誰的錯 謊言再多 基於你還愛我

美麗的泡沫 雖然一剎花火
你所有承諾 雖然都太脆弱
愛本是泡沫 如果能夠看破 有什麼難過
再美的花朵 盛開過就凋落
再亮眼的星 一閃過就墮落
愛本是泡沫 如果能夠看破 有什麼難過

為什麼難過 有什麼難過 為什麼難過

全都是泡沫 只一剎的花火
你所有承諾 全部都太脆弱
而你的輪廓 怪我沒有看破 才如此難過
相愛的把握 要如何再搜索
相擁著寂寞 難道就不寂寞
愛本是泡沫 怪我沒有看破 才如此難過

在雨下的泡沫 一觸就破
當初熾熱的心 早已沉沒
說什麼你愛我 如果騙我 我寧願你沉默

2012年12月3日星期一

LIFE'S LITTLE INSTRUCTION BOOK 1-300

My pick
 
20. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
26. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
41. Don't postpone joy.
42. Write "thank you" notes promptly.
43. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen every day.
54. Surprise loved ones with little unexpected gifts.
55. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
62. Use your wit to amuse, not abuse.
66. Don't make the same mistake twice.
67. Demand excellence and be willing to pay for it.
68. Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
78. When someone wants to hire you, even if it's for a job you have little interest in, talk to them. Never close the door on an opportunity until you've had a chance to hear
the offer in person.
93. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come ninety percent of all your happiness or misery.
96. Lend only those books you never care to see again.
99. Think big thoughts, but relish small pleasures.
112. Don't expect others to listen to your advice and ignore your example.
131. Don't buy cheap tools.
139. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have.
141. Give yourself an hour to cool off before responding to someone who has provoked you. If it involves something really important, give yourself overnight.
152. Give people the benefit of the doubt.
156. Strive for excellence, not perfection.
159. Be tough minded but tenderhearted.
164. Be punctual and insist on it in others.
165. Don't waste time responding to your critics.
166. Avoid negative people.
173. Be kinder than necessary.
175. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
177. Never take action when you're angry.
178. Learn to recognize the inconsequential, then ignore it.
182. Be romantic.
183. Let people know what you stand forand what you won't stand for.
185. Never criticize the person who signs your paycheck. If you are unhappy with your job, resign.
188. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
204. Choose work that is in harmony with your values.
206. Give your best to your employer. It's one of the best investments you can make.
210. Commit yourself to constant self-improvement.
213. Don't waste time grieving over past mistakes. Learn from them and move on.
215. Don't plan a long evening on a blind date. A lunch date is perfect. If things don't work out, both of you have only wasted an hour.
221. Don't major in minor things.
237. Seek out the good in people.
249. Hire people smarter than you.
250. Learn to show cheerfulness, even when you don't feel like it.
251. Learn to show enthusiasm, even when you don't feel like it.
252. Take good care of those you love.
285. Never overestimate your power to change others.
291. Remember the deal's not done until the check has cleared the bank.
293. Don't spread yourself too thin. Learn to say no politely and quickly.
297. Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: (1) finding the right person and (2) being the right person.
300. Don't expect life to be fair.

2012年12月2日星期日

...

「男仔唔應該咁拖拖拉拉」


「無常先係最平常不過ge事」

「當過左一段時間 你遇見一個更重要ge人 佢就會令你將o個個曾經重要ge人淡忘」

「每個人都係要經歷下呢d階段」

「呢個世界太多巧合」

「我唔可以比佢知我又買手袋」

「下次我地唔好娥shopping啦」  「唔得 shopping 好緊要架」

2012年11月30日星期五

Questions

Let me try to do that for killing time, and it's time to know myself more again.


1: 6 of the songs you listen to most?
not me not I

2: If you could meet anyone on this earth, who would it be?


3: Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 23, give me line 17.

4: What do you think about most?
how to spoil myself

5: What does your latest text message from someone else say?
"d字太細, 睇唔清楚" because i send the previous article to him.

6: Do you sleep with or without clothes on?
overdressed haaa

7: What's your strangest talent?
the speed to ko the crust

8: Girls... (finish the sentence); Boys... (finish the sentence)

9: Ever had a poem or song written about you?
um..yes

10: When is the last time you played the air guitar?
never

11: Do you have any strange phobias?

12: Ever stuck a foreign object up your nose?
tissue?

13: What's your religion?


14: If you are outside, what are you most likely doing?
wandering

15: Do you prefer to be behind the camera or in front of it?
behind

16: Simple but extremely complex. Favorite band?


17: What was the last lie you told?
i never lie

18: Do you believe in karma?
yes

19: What does your URL mean?
i can't quite understand.

20: What is your greatest weakness; your greatest strength?
weakness: too lazy
strength: gain weight easily

21: Who is your celebrity crush?


22: Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
i dunno how to swim

23: How do you vent your anger?
eat, sleep and buy

24: Do you have a collection of anything?
quite a lot, stickers, cards...

25: Do you prefer talking on the phone or video chatting online?
i like face to face chat, but if it's video, phone call is much better.

26: Are you happy with the person you've become?
yes, i love myself a lot

27: What's a sound you hate; sound you love?


28: What's your biggest "what if"?
women should never ask "what if" questions

29: Do you believe in ghosts? How about aliens?
yes, for both

30: Stick your right arm out; what do you touch first? Do the same with your left arm.
air; printer

31: Smell the air. What do you smell?
rain

32: What's the worst place you have ever been to?

33: Choose: East Coast or West Coast?
east coast

34: Most attractive singer of your opposite gender?

35: To you, what is the meaning of life?
happy, healthy and lucky all the time, my life goal

36: Define Art.
sth pretty that makes you feel so satisfied after seeing them

37: Do you believe in luck?
firm believer

38: What's the weather like right now?
windy and rainy, a bit cold

39: What time is it?
11:02am

40: Do you drive? If so, have you ever crashed?
no, no sense of direction

41: What was the last book you read?
the textbook of my student

42: Do you like the smell of gasoline?
no

43: Do you have any nicknames?
yes

44: What was the last film you saw?
i have forgotten, need t check it out from my movie list

45: What's the worst injury you've ever had?
haaa, ask my mum

46: Have you ever caught a butterfly?
no

47: Do you have any obsessions right now?
yes

48: What's your sexual orientation?
i like men

49: Ever had a rumour spread about you?
everyone has

50: Do you believe in magic?
yes

51: Do you tend to hold grudges against people who have done you wrong?
they don't deserve my time

52: What is your astrological sign?
virgo

53: Do you save money or spend it?
both

54: What's the last thing you purchased?
birthday card

55: Love or lust?
love

56: In a relationship?
no but it's complicated

57: How many relationships have you had?
let me count later

58: Can you touch your nose with your tongue?
no

59: Where were you yesterday?
office and home

60: Is there anything pink within 10 feet of you?
yes, my earphones

61: Are you wearing socks right now?
no

62: What's your favourite animal?
kitten

63: What is your secret weapon to get someone to like you?
i have to ask someone like me first

64: Where is your best friend?
Hong Kong, is that the ans i suppose to give?

65: Give me your top 5 favourite blogs on Tumblr.


66: What is your heritage?
err, my sticker collection

67: What were you doing last night at 12AM?
sleeping

68: What do you think is Satan's last name?
Should be the last name of those who give me xmas presents :P

69: Be honest. Ever gotten yourself off?
70: Are you the kind of friend you would want to have as a friend?
Yes

71: You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late one more time you get fired. What do you do?
My boss wouldnt be like that

72: You are at the doctor’s office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. a) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? b) What do you do with your remaining days? c) Would you be afraid?

73: You can only have one of these things; trust or love.
love

74: What's a song that always makes you happy when you hear it?

75: What are the last four digits in your cell phone number?

76: In your opinion, what makes a great relationship?
endless love and communication

77: How can I win your heart?
spoil me like a princess haaa

78: Can insanity bring on more creativity?
yes

79: What is the single best decision you have made in your life so far?
i make lots of best decision

80: What size shoes do you wear?
39

81: What would you want to be written on your tombstone?
how are you? I am fine, thank you.

82: What is your favourite word?
serendipity

83: Give me the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word; heart.
broken

84: What is a saying you say a lot?
stay happy

85: What's the last song you listened to?

86: Basic question; what's your favourite colour/colours?
orange

87: What is your current desktop picture?
Jessica Stam in a white blazer, i post it here before

88: If you could press a button and make anyone in the world instantaneously explode, who would it be?

89: What would be a question you'd be afraid to tell the truth on?

90: One night you wake up because you heard a noise. You turn on the light to find that you are surrounded by MUMMIES. The mummies aren't really doing anything, they're just standing around your bed. What do you do?

91: You accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good, and what's even cooler is that they endow you with the super-power of your choice! What is that power?


92: You can re-live any point of time in your life. The time-span can only be a half-hour, though. What half-hour of your past would you like to experience again?

93: You can erase any horrible experience from your past. What will it be?

94: You have the opportunity to sleep with the music-celebrity of your choice. Who would it be?

95: You just got a free plane ticket to anywhere. You have to depart right now. Where are you gonna go?

96: Do you have any relatives in jail?
No

97: Have you ever thrown up in the car?
no

98: Ever been on a plane?
yes

99: If the whole world were listening to you right now, what would you say?
don't listen to me, listen to your heart